blkwlw:

if you experience some level of attraction to men but don’t intend to date men and lesbian is the term you’re most comfortable with, congratulations, you’re a lesbian!

if you experience attraction to men but don’t intend to date men and don’t identify as a lesbian, that’s completely fine too!

other people do not know the nuances of your attraction and you do not have to break it down for anyone. you’re not faking it and you’re the only one who gets to decide how you identify.