You don’t have to be recovering or “working on” your disability and/or neurodivergence for it to be accepted and respected. Disabled/neurodivergent people don’t have to ever “recover”, “better themselves”, or anything of that nature especially since for a lot of people it isn’t possible or even an option. Disabled/nd people are 100% okay how they are and if they want to work on things that’s completely up to them and them alone.