mrimmortal:

i love jokes about straight people as much as the next lgbt person, but tbh sometimes i think people can go too far with the straight/cis/ally hate

my reason for this is because, a lot of these “cishets” that want into our community or “safe spaces” might be closeted, or still questioning.

as a bisexual & nonbinary person, there were plenty of times where i wasn’t sure if i was “enough” to be lgbt, and i’ve known plenty of “straight allies” and “cis allies” that… turned out not to be as straight as they thought. but i never pressured them. and even though i am lgbt, it’s still ***none of my business*** whether they are closeted or not.

i’d rather let some over enthusiastic straight/cis kid hang around and learn more about the lgbt community than risk ostracizing an lgbt person that isn’t ready to come out.

i’d really appreciate reblogs if that’s okay