things people don’t say enough:
– it’s okay to be confused about your identity
– if you change your label from bi to lesbian, you’re NOT contributing to the argument that bisexuality is just a phase. it’s totally okay to do that.
– pansexuality is real and valid and great
– if you’re a trans women you sure as hell can identify as sapphic. if someone says you can’t, ignore them.
– if you’re ace/aro (or in the spectrums) you can still identify as sapphic too
– there’s nothing wrong with being also attracted to men, it doesnt make you any “less” sapphic
– wlwoc exist and are SO beautiful
– you can find out you’re sapphic with 5 or with 50 years, it’s all fine
– you can have a fluid sexuality and still identify as sapphic (at least as long as you’re attracted to women)
– you can be non-binary and still be sapphic