ruby-dear:

okay so i’m probably 7856454 years late to this realization but
…i guess the reason straight people don’t really think our identities matter that much to us is because theirs don’t to them?
like, i think about how not straight i am all the time
but they don’t do that, do they?
they don’t walk around thinking ‘i’m soooo straight’, right?
so they don’t think it’s a big deal to other people
maybe that’s it and maybe it’s not but i mean
it’s something to think about for me